Wednesday, August 20, 2025

From the archives (May 18, 2021): Nostalgia ain't all it's cracked up to be

From 1965 until 1975, a sitcom called Till Death Us Do Part ran on British television. Its success inspired similar shows in several other countries, including All in the Family in the United States from 1971 to 1979. All in the Family starred Carroll O'Connor and Jean Stapleton in the roles of Archie Bunker and Edith Bunker, respectively, and every episode began with the two of them sitting at their piano, singing this song:

Boy, the way Glenn Miller played
Songs that made
The Hit Parade,
Guys like us, we had it made,
Those were the days!

And you knew where you were then,
Girls were girls and men were men.
Mister, we could use a man like Herbert Hoover again.

Didn't need no welfare state,
Everybody pulled his wei.ght.
Gee, our old LaSalle ran great,
Those were the days!


It has now been more than 50 years since Archie and Edith began singing that song. The wonderful days they longed for and missed so much included the years of the Stock Market Crash, the Great Depression, and World War II.

The days many people today seem to long for include the Korean Conflict, the VietNam War, the urban riots during the Civil Rights movement, the AIDS scare. One can almost envision a few years down the road that millennials will be looking back with fondness on good old days like September 11, 2001.

Time plays tricks on people. Many human beings seem to remember only the good and forget the bad, while others do just the opposite, emphasizing the bad and ignoring the good. It is my opinion that both groups are unrealistic in their approaches to living. I will leave it to others to help both groups work out their mental health problems.

I, of course, have the answer. For a dose of real nostalgia, the good kind, let us return to the days of yesteryear (that's a phrase from The Lone Ranger radio program if you didn't know) and go back to the school playground, as we did in this post from 2014, which you should now read, including the comments, before continuing..

Now that I think about it, grade-school recess wasn't always such fun either. I distinctly remember Sidney Usleton sneaking up on me every day during recess in the second grade and choking me from behind. This lasted until I mentioned it at home, at which time my Dad showed me a little jujitsu move he had learned in the Navy that sent Sidney Usleton packing. He never bothered me again. I think our teacher, Miss Elizabeh Nash (younger sister of Miss Erma, the principal) was oblivious to the whole situation.

Do you have good memories or bad memories from grade school?

8 comments:

  1. I have mostly good memories. I went to a one room rural school. we had an enrolment of nine to seventeen. It was like a family. Did we fight once in a while ? Yes we did but it didn't last long. Those were the days!

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    1. My memories are mostly good too, but there are a few stinkeroos in there I would like to forget. Thanks, Keith.

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  2. It's natural to remember the happier times, though some people do seem to enjoy misery. They weren't 'good old days' - they were 'different old days.'

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    1. They were just 'old days' -- neither good nor bad. Just like the ones we have now except for the speed of things nowadays. Thanks, Janice.

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  3. I have good memories. I was a friendly kid who liked to make people laugh. I would smile and wave and talk to most everyone. I was helpful to teachers. I wanted to be liked and I didn't ever want to get in trouble.

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    1. You sound like a normal, healthy kid to me, well-integrated into society. Maybe a bit 'goodie two shoes'. Unlikely to act out. Possibly a serial killer in the making. Dr. RWP ha spoken. Thanks, Ellen.

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  4. I loved school. Learning is what I do best. I am puzzled about part of the first grade. I remember absolutely nothing about it... not my teacher or classwork, not any of the children, not going to school. I have a good memory and I remember the rest of my teachers and schools. I even remember most of my classmates. That time is completely lost to me.

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    1. You sound a lot like me. I loved school too. Some people think I have an a photographic memory (I don’t), but there are definitely gaps in what I remember. Thank you, Emma.

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