Saturday, December 28, 2024

Fast away the old year passes

(Fa la la la la, la la la la)

Hail the new, ye lads and lasses

(Fa la la la la, la la la la)

but before you do, before 2024 recedes into history and disappears forever, before some people bid it a fond farewell and others bid good riddance to bad rubbish, before 2025 arrives in all its bright (though probably false) prospects of better things ahead, a very important event remains on our family's social calendar.

I'm not referring to our after-Christmas Christmas get-together. That event will take place tomorrow, Sunday, December 29th. The event I'm talking about will occur on Tuesday, December 31st. It is the wedding of our last unmarried grandson and his fiancée. They chose that date for their wedding because it was on New Year's Eve four years ago that they met.

It was actually their second choice. They originally planned to be married in October in Pinellas County, Florida, but hurricanes Helene and Milton ruined their plans.

It just occurred to me that by marrying on the last day of the year, they will receive the tax advantages of being a married couple for the entire year if they file a joint income tax return for 2024.

I wonder whether it has occurred to them.

I'll end this post with a poem I wrote more than 40 years ago:

On Viewing a Medieval Bridal Chamber

Half a morning’s measure,
.....Stripped of veil and train,
Here, in languid leisure,
.....Maids with men have lain,
Off’ring up their treasure,
.....Off’ring sweat and stain,
Little gasps of pleasure,
.....Little cries of pain.

In their sweet uncladness,
.....Still all lovers cling,
Thinking, in their madness,
.....Lusty flesh is king;
What now gives them gladness
.....All too soon shall bring
Little sighs of sadness,
.....Little tears that sting.

(end of poem)

Life, being unpredictable, has many twists and turns, and no one knows what the future mat bring. I wish the new couple every happiness and only the very best life has to offer as they walk together into the future.

9 comments:

  1. Marrying on the eve of a new year is symbolic. I wish the couple happiness and fortitude for the years ahead. Happy New Year to you, Robert, and your lovely Ellie, and a healthy 2025.

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    1. Thank you, Janice. We reciprocate and hope you have a happy, healthy, and prosperous New Year as well!

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  2. Best wishes to the happy couple. I wish them a long happy life together.

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  3. I wish the very best for the young 'uns wedding day and marriage.

    I sometimes imagine marrying again and wonder if I could be so vulnerable and trusting as I was back in the day and it makes me think how brave young people are.

    Enjoy the Christmas festivities, you're going to need a holiday after all that!

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    1. Thank you for the good wishes for the young ‘uns.

      Regarding vulnerability and trust, perhaps experience is the best teacher. We are completely different people at different phases of life. Many have thought “i’d like to be 20 again and know what I know now” but think the Lord knew what he was doing in having us live one day at a time. Old age has definite challenges, it’s true, but I remember that Robert Browning wrote, “Grow old along with me. The best is yet to be, the last of life for which the first was made.”

      I just realized that Christmas festivities and waxing philosophical both make me need a holiday! Than you for commenting, kylie.

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  4. A very interesting post if I may say so without sounding patronising. A lot more subtlety in there the more one reads it. If we knew then...... One question is how much we would believe enough to alter our 'then' views? The younger we were the more sure we were. At 80 I have lost most of my dogmatism. Every day makes me realise how many decisions I have taken in life which could have been 'better'. But would I have ever believed it if I'd been told? Qui sait?

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    1. Qui sait indeed! Or as we said back in Texas in the days of my youth (and I hope blogger recognizes html codes in comments), ¿Quien sabe? which as you probably know is Spanish for the same thing you said in Latin. Thank you, Graham. Your comments always provide food for thought. (In case blogger does not recognize html codes in comments, iquest was supposed to produce an inverted question mark.)

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